Hello mom, dad and Doula!
Photography: Hillary Maybery
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Peterson’s path to her “doula calling” first struck her in a childbirth education class for her own first pregnancy. In the class, “I heard a woman say her father had told her it would be the worst day of her life,” Peterson recalls. Her own mother saw childbirth as a powerful gift women were blessed with and an event to celebrate, not a reason to spend a week in the hospital, so Peterson was shocked, and inspired.
“I had a mother and two sisters who only spoke of birth as a positive and amazing experience,” she says of her epiphany. “I realized these people [in the class] were so scared—I wanted to do something about it.”
Peterson started by immersing herself in childbirth education to provide expectant mothers with a positive and empowering view of childbirth.
It proved more daunting than any childbirth because she was terrified of public speaking. “It took 10 years for me to overcome my fear of public speaking and do my student teaching,” Peterson laughs.
It was while in the midst of her initial training that Peterson learned about a certified nurse midwife program. She enrolled in nursing school with a plan to become a certified midwife, but decided to take a different route when she became pregnant with her third child. The program involved too much schooling and time away from her young—and growing—family, a sacrifice Peterson had no interest in making.
This led Peterson to her dream job when—fortuitously—Penny Simken, one of her instructors and mentors at the Seattle Midwifery School, encouraged Peterson to take the doula training offered at the center. She immediately recognized the role of the doula as the perfect vehicle for her to be an instrument in changing the overall birthing experience.
While doulas, by law, are not required to have any special credentials to practice, Peterson pursued credentials with Doulas of North America, or DONA, the largest and best-known doula organization in the world.
Initial DONA certification requires a few weekends of training and many more hours of independent reading, research, and apprentice work. Peterson also had to write up her detailed observations at three births to pass the DONA evaluation. Certified 18 years ago, she still renews her credentials with continuing education.
When a couple’s ideal birth plans are upended by unexpected complications, Peterson is there providing the emotional and educational support to help them better deal with their new birth situations.
“If they know they’ve exhausted every resource possible to have the birth that they planned and that change is due to medical circumstances, these couples can still have a positive, but different, birth experience,” she reasons.
Kate and Jeff Heinecke decided to ask Peterson to be their doula after meeting her in their childbirth education class. “We thought it would be good to have another person at our birth who is just there for us,” Kate explained before delivery. “Having Larsen allows us to focus on the event—we’re going to have a baby—and not get as worried about the process. Jeff was so impressed with Larsen that I knew he would be able to put 100 percent of his efforts toward supporting me with her support and guidance.”
When the Heineckes finally brought their son Pete into this world, they found their expectations for Larsen more than fulfilled. “Larsen and Jeff made such a great team together,” remembers Kate. “She was phenomenal. Both Jeff and I were so grateful to have her with us.”
And as my husband reminded me as I wrote this article, “It’s easy for the dad to feel overwhelmed and helpless to his wife in labor. Larsen helped me support (my wife) and be fully engaged in both our daughters’ births. I’m not sure I would have felt as emotionally equipped to deal with everything as well if Larsen hadn’t been there to support both of us.”
She’s a much-valued anchor when things get hectic and the medical team handles emergency situations, filling the gaps in information for the husband while the staff takes care of the mother and baby.
For Peterson, the end goal to her work is to provide parents with an empowering birth experience that naturally transfers to their initial parenting experience.
“If parents have a positive birth experience,” she explains her role in the foundation-laying. “It starts them off with more confidence as parents and as a couple.”